Why This Book?

Written by three sisters who survived the notorious Children of God cult, Not Without My Sister is a deeply moving testament to the power of sibling love and resilience. Each woman tells her story — overlapping but distinct — revealing how they were raised in an environment of exploitation, obedience, and isolation. Despite being separated for years, their survival and eventual reunion offer a rare look at what it means to reclaim identity, trust, and connection after childhoods stolen by control.

Who It’s For

• Survivors of religious or communal cults, especially those born into them
• Readers seeking insight into the experience of growing up under total control
• Those exploring how family bonds can help heal deep trauma

Big Takeaways

• Being born into a cult often means never knowing the difference between love and control — until you leave.
• Reconnection and healing after separation is possible, even when the past is filled with pain.
• Telling your story, even when it’s hard, can be a powerful act of freedom — for yourself and others.

How It Can Help

Not Without My Sister is an essential read for anyone who grew up inside a system they didn’t choose. It offers hope that even when your beginning is shaped by abuse, your ending can be shaped by love — especially the kind that comes from truth-telling and reclaiming family on your own terms.

Additional Notes or Warnings

• The book discusses child sexual abuse, forced labor, and psychological manipulation.
• While it includes graphic content, it is handled with care. Sensitive readers may wish to read at their own pace.